I’ll just come out and say it, women like assholes and that shouldn’t come as a surprise to you really. Most guys have probably been in a situation where they liked a girl and she wouldn’t give you the time of day because she was chasing after a guy that was a complete asshole. In fact, that might be one of the reasons they joined a dating site, to meet girls that like normal guys.
This is a baffling phenomenon and I am going to try to help you make sense of it.
There are many factors that play into a girl who wants a guy even though he acts like an asshole. I will address some of the major factors to give you a better understanding and help you know what to do when you are faced with being attracted to a girl who only seems to be attracted to douche bags.
Reasons Women Like Assholes And Why They Date Them
Self-Esteem And Other Mental Issues – This is one of the most complicated reasons that women like assholes. Reason being, you have no idea what happened in her life to make her feel attracted to these types of guys. There is not much you can do in this situation besides discussing it with her and hope she wakes up.
The Allure Of The Bad Boy – This is one of the most annoying reasons. A lot of girls love a bad boy. He’s dangerous. He’s exciting. Often, just being honest and candid makes you appear to be a bad boy. Don’t force it and act like someone you are not. Just be the most confident and self-assured version of yourself you can be.
He’s Good Looking; She Thinks She Can Change Him – Many times it’s just the rugged good looks that gets a girl to go for the assholes. She overlooks his shortcomings in the hopes she can change him if she holds on to him tight enough. All you can do is wait for her to realize; yeah he’s just a dick.
She Just Wants Someone To Excite Her – A lot of these girls don’t necessarily want a guy who is an asshole. They just want to have fun and excitement in their lives. She may think that she has to put up with shortcomings to have a good time. What this girl doesn’t know is that normal guys know how to have fun on a date and they like to excite girls enough to want to fuck too.
It All Comes Back To Confidence – You might be surprised how easily you can override many of this reasoning by just having confidence in yourself. Confidence makes you look better, feel better and become more attractive to the opposite sex whether they are into assholes or not. Don’t let her mistake an asshole for a confident man. Show her that a man can be confident and still be a good guy.
Look, if you are an asshole or one of these douche Jersey Shore fucks that treats women like shit then I’d like to meet you in a dark alley and kick the snot out of you. However, if you’re a nice guy that just wants to meet girls to have sex a couple nights a week then connect with some online and you won’t be sorry.